Hi, I’m Sarah Tomchesson.
I am a Certified Sex Educator and embodied intimacy coach, host of the feminist podcast F*ck Yeah, co-founder of SEX+ Community and proud parent to a vivacious 9 year old. I firmly believe in the power of pleasure as a tool for connecting to your whole self, healing shame, and a grounding point for self care, personal empowerment and community care. My life changed forever when I discovered the power of embodied pleasure. The evolving journey I have had with pleasure as my guide has been profound and I am here to spread the gospel.
Pleasure has become a euphemism for sexual satisfaction and has, for many, become a “dirty” word. I could write a thesis on the ways that sexual repression, inherited puritanical standards and cultural norms, have commingled to create stigma around the simple act of enjoyment. I have spent nearly two decades helping people experience sexual satisfaction and show up as their whole, authentic self in relationships. My approach is not to “fix” you. It is the world’s orientation towards pleasure, body autonomy, self-actualization that is the problem - not you. My approach is to orient you towards yourself, your desires, your needs, your particular blocks and from there empower you with the tools to connect more deeply with yourself, your loved ones, and your world!
In addition to my pleasure and sex education work I oversee brand marketing for the iconic Magic Wand brand, and am honored to sit on the Board of Directors as Vice Chair of SIECUS - Sex Ed for Social Change.
